Many people focus on where they are headed, the future, those things that have yet to happen. You may have a test coming up and you prepare. You mind may be on your next vacation, your goal of getting a promotion, of getting somewhere you want to go.
Human beings gain more knowledge during difficult experiences. Why you are where you are is not always obvious to your conscious mind, but you figure it out. You may assume you got to a meeting to take in what has been planned on an agenda, but the real reason if not what you assume. You may assume you stopped at a gas station to fill your tank, but you actually had to see an article in a paper. There you discovered an unforseen opportunity.
When you take a particular bus, you may actually do this because of a person you meet. That person may become your business partner, your spouse or, assumesome other meaningful role. Youa re not going to know exactly whay you are somewhere until later. Share a story of events that have unfolded for you.