Many people self-question about the point of fundamental decisions. They wonder whether they say or do 'the right thing.' Second-guessing is a synonym for self-doubt. This does not necessarily mean you do not want to experience something, or does it? Part of you asks, what you are doing here how? The answer: you are ready to see the light.
1) Choose to examine your ambivalence. When part of you wants something and another part resists, the underlying reason is struggling to get your attention.
2) Explore your feelings about duty. You are someone's beacon of inspiration and light or, feel a sense of commitment to something or someone for whom you provide light.
3) Contemplate the value of change. Part of you that favors change may wish to avoid fuss, consequences, ripples in a calm sea. What if all this is helpful to more than just you?
4) Pray to the Source. This could be the source of apparent troubles as well as the Source of all energy, salvation and love. Divine connections alter forever the progression of existence.
5) Say something, anything. Participating in dialogue, even with yourself, reminds you of being alive. Everything is equally adequate and inadequate to explain the indescribable.
6) Be grateful for what defies explanation. To realize you are not meant to explain or understand everything, is a relief. You teach yourself what to do and rediscover stillness.
7) Listen to the voice of compassion. Part of you is forever calm, and gives you the only possible answer worth hearing. This is the opposite end of the spectrum from the devaluation of self. Pure love fills you and answers the call.