Consider why its easier to love people at a distance.  You create a vision that nutures the flow of affection and nothing gets in the way.  Feel the freedom that reveals itself as you feel love regardless of what another person is doing, regardless of where he is. This is unconditional love, that which the witness within finds compelling.  Everything you feel reflects the vibrational relationship to that which is you.  In essence, you either do what feels right to align with love or you do not. There is nothing you cannot be, do or have when you cooperate with the flow of energy in the universe.  The only thing that holds you back is you.  Savor the dreaming process.  Dream for the pure joy of it.  Do not care about the outcome and there it is.