Appreciating yourself is a way to offer an example to others and help them regain a sense of centre or grounding. Choose to guide someone to reconnect to a core state of being, that is joy, pure unconditional love and acceptance.
Notice your motive is to encourage freedom and letting go of inhibition in that person as well as yourself. Take your attention away from any disruptive vibrations which include any resistance to existing love and acceptance. Be willing to imagine that person realizing his intention to be in a healthier and happier state of being. Insodoing, you also channel energy into your own vision for a parallel state of balance and wellness. Allow joy to flow.