Many people come to believe they are being dressed in this world by this world. That is, they are in situations they are because of conditions beyond their control. What if you take greater responsibility here? Consider a shift in perspective:
1) Your perception creates your sense of the world. Change your perception and change what you see and experience.
2) What you interpret as the external reflects back how you feel inside about you. Listen to the heart not conditioned senses.
3) Recognize beliefs are changeable. What you tell yourself is or is not possible is all in your mind. Embark on self-discovery.