Many people tell themselves they wish to change something about their external conditions, or change something about the external world. Its also common to desire to change something about the behaviour or attitude of others. Who or what is really ever getting out-of-hand? What is the role of control and surrender in your life? Reflect on five tips to live whole-heartedly;
1. Live more joyfully
Wherever you are, whatever you do, allow yourself to feel and express more joy. So often, a distinction is made between work and play, time to be serious and relax time to be light-hearted. What if you could laugh and play your way through life? What would this look and feel like?
2. Model the behaviour you wish to see in others
The external world is a mirror. As Gandi says, Be the change you wish to see. Imagine life experience is less about doing than being. Thus, its not what you do or accomplish that matters, but rather, the vibration you send out with behaviour. How often are you fully present?
3. Nurture a loving and compasionate attitude
Regardless of what you encounter, reach deep within for forgiveness and understanding. The temptation exists to allow other emotions to hijack your attention and influence your behaviour. Know you control how you respond to everything. Growing mindful naturally shifts your focus, empowers you to reclaim inner power. you had unconsciously given away
4. Recognize every relationship is an opportunity
What if every relationship invites you to see the best in everyone? Only one relationship exists. How you feel about yourself is mirrored. Be a living example love and acceptance. Do you choose to see and recall the best in everyone, even during moments emotions or illness take over?
5. Demonstrate and create the highest version of Who You Are
Some people feel they exist to learn lessons, climb a hierarchy, meet challenges, realize dreams. Come what may, rediscover what integrity or being true to yourself feels like.