Reframe everything as love
Thursday, March 26, 2009 at 12:25PM As events unfold in your life, the ego mind prompts you to interpret in ways that block the message of love. To reframe, step back from what the ego tells you and consider the frame, or 'lens' through which this reality is being created. Understand the unspoken assumptions, including beliefs. Consider how your perspective is enriched as you reframe everything as love;
1) View everything as useful lesson. The universe presents energy in such a way as to encourage you to create more loving relationships. This includes learning to view every person with compassion. Through apparent joy and pain, you actually learn about love from many different sides. It expands you.
2) Reach out with understanding. Regardless of the magnitude and nature of experience, faith and non-violence are key. Reacting with fear, sefishness or other negativity, misses the point of why you exist now. Useful growth occurs through facing obstacles. As one becomes aware, one has occasion to recognize and unlearn undesirable traits.
3) Recognize love as dynamic energy. This is reflected in the flow of giving and receiving. Unconditional love is here whether you are open to it or not. Love goes beyond what you read. Love is felt by attuning to intuition, opening the senses and permitting all experience to touch the heart and expand you. It is about dissolving fear, feeling the bliss that echos everything and being that.
“A problem can not be solved from the same logical level it was created.” -Albert Einstein
Reader Comments (20)
With true love, obstacles perhaps drops from one's vocabulary, and any experience becomes welcomed and cherished.
All I know is love's the answer
Love's the thing to set us free
All I know is love's the answer
Whatever the question may be
I'll even apply that to a driver who gave me "the finger" for no good reason yesterday!
Sometimes I don't want to expand in love! I want to fight back.
Of course I know better. A good friend of mine reminds everyone to choose to only see the love. Isn't that a great line.
My intention the first time was not to defend myself. Of course it didn't work! So I'll print these out and go over them a few times before the appt. so my ego is in check.
It sure was easier to be in the chair of the therapist when I worked with parents and adult children. Thanks for the reminder and wish me well.
"This includes learning to view every person with compassion." - so true. If we look at each individual with compassion and love, we will grow to respect them as the individuals that they are. They don't have to be like me or you; they are themselves - and that should be grasped and respected.
"Useful growth occurs through facing obstacles." - that is why the hurdles are there in the first place: for our personal growth.
"It is about dissolving fear and remembering what you incarnate to do." - indeed, indeed.
I have one question, though: the world needs the opposites in order to keep its balance, right? What if some people reincarnate not to love, as a form of balance against those who do love? What if that is their mission?
Cheers
When I was 19 I was told of a place in which you could shave your head for almost nothing. So, I went just to save on a hair cut. That was the most horrible day in my life, in a way, maybe not the toughest nor the most sad, but horrible in a way.
With the boots I was wearing I probably looked like a neo-nazi of some sort... every homeless person, gypsy etc just crossed to the other side of the street.
That taught me two things: one is that there's nothing worse than to be feared; the second is that these young people, once they are in such a group, are pretty much unreacheable unless you dare to show affection; which could be heroic or even foolhardy, but still...
Hmmm... "Useful growth occurs through facing obstacles." And we create these obstacles right -- or, we perceive our own obstacles? So we are doing this for our own good. Ouch! I need a break from these growing pains. I've built enough muscle in the last few months to run around the world. All I seem to be feeling though, is the result of the buildup of the lactic acid.
YES! Precisely. I couldn't agree more.
I wrote an article a month ago about Overcoming Fear. I will go back to that article and link back to you. My readers need to see this.
Thank you.