See through the conflict

Sometimes, no matter who you are or what you do, you encounter critical people or have the urge to criticize others. What is all this testing? Awaken to why you focus on conflict.  Its not about any external provocateur. It is about how you permit the mind to control you. As you listen and connect with intrinsic value in others, you expand perspective, recognize you want  the same thing: to be loved and appreciated.

When was the last time you chose to see beautiful, lovable things in a labelled 'enemy?' You have the capacity to create a bridge.  Find something to respect and care about in people who appear to annoy you. As you do, you let go of the past. Its possible to forgive what triggers discomfort beneath the surface. Surprise yourself.  Go deeper into the meaning in how or why you judge.  Conflict is a gift and teacher.

Comments

[Natural Moments]

When we are no longer critical of ourselves......when we truly love our Self.....then the world and the universe loves us unconditionally. What we reject haunts us till it is "bridged" by opening our hearts. Conflict is static upon the screen waiting to be tuned into till a perfect picture is formed. The picture then can be released so new pictures of an expanding universe can be formed for entertainment and exploration.

[Liara Covert]

Bernie, removing the static enables a hidden dimension to emerge. By remembering non-judgment and non-resistance, every being gains free access to this inner dimension in the present moment.

[Tammie]

lovely wisdom Liara,
I will take it, thank you.

[Liara Covert]

Tammie, conflict is a state of mind. Love is a state of being. As people choose to stop defending and exerting effort to 'improve' themselves, they begin to see through the ego nature of expectations and also begin to feel what it is to open completely or, to surrender to who they are beyond that.

[Tammie]

remove the static
and
enter a state of being
lovely~

[Hilary]

Hi Liara .. this is certainly something I need to address and to absorb .. thanks Hilary

[Liara Covert]

Tammie, state of being is constant, and exists whether you notice it consciously or not.

[Liara Covert]

Hilary, every perceived conflict offers opportunities for a new beginning, new ways of seeing.

[CordieB]

Hi Liara

"Conflict is a state of mind, love is a state of being" Why is it so often times hard to bring love to the surface, especially when dealing with difficult people or situations? One of my favorite quotes goes something like this... "imagine in the heat of an argument, the one you're arguing with slumps down and dies.... where is your anger now?" All conflict gives us the opportunity to pull love from the inside to the outside - but we must make a choice. I learned this the hard way, many years ago - but I feel blessed to have learned it early in life.

Very good posting Liara....I needed that reminder this afternoon. :)
Peace, Light and Love,

C.

[Walking in Stillness]

When we make the shift inside...then the world responds to our resonance change. We are only difficult with our selves. When we surrender within, the external war ends. Something does die, but it isn't external....it is internal. If someone in the exterior world were to slump down and die, the anger exchange would cease, but it will still be lodged within till you meet with the next appropriate person who corresponds to your anger wishes. We are responsible for the cards that are dealt. We can create new face cards. We can create new rules to the card game. We created the game....and we can also end it.

[Liara Covert]

Cordie, at a given moment, one always invites into awareness precisely what is required.

[Liara Covert]

Bernie, to awaken to the fact that you are master of your own game is a timeless revelation.