Powerful mirrors

If you're open to learning, relationships will reveal a lot of insight into yourself. People with whom you interact mirror your values, feelings and principles, providing you choose to see it. Your decisions about who you spend time with reflect priorities and resonate back how you feel about yourself. Do you sense it? You can evolve to discover what you have been fighting against, and take steps to finally embrace it.

Consider how comfortable you are with yourself, money, people, and your current situation in life. If you harbour negative feelings, learn to recognize links and associations. Wherever you sense discomfort pinpoints those things that are part of something you haven't fully grasped or accepted about you. This is a realm anyone can enter and evolve to better understand. Its as accessible as you decide it can be.

Imagine sensations you feel as you experience fear.  Recognize you invite those feelings as well as people into your life who intimidate or otherwise trigger the repeated discomfort. What kind of a reminder is your mind offering you? What haven't you dealt with from your past? The patterns of your existence reveal themselves by how you express compassion and affection.  Ask yourself why feelings of frustration, fear, agitation and anger may be destructive to your health and well-being.  Seeing these traits in people reminds you to face reasons for your feelings.

What if you realized that positive thinking was the beginning of how you could show yourself the energy you send out? What if you could develop stronger feelings, vision and intensity that would not only promote balance in yourself, but also attract similar-minded people toward you? Admit that driving yourself too far in one area of your life at the expense of others doesn't bring you the knowledge you need to grow inward or the people who would deepen your soul.  Understand that nurturing extreme emotions without a sense of direction could also invite directionless people into your life. Is that what you want?

The point is not to encourage you to simply drop relationships which don't seem to help you. Rather, learn to recognize how each interaction is a clue to how you're thinking and acting and whether or not your behavior is working for you or drawing your attention to things in need of change. You have the power to improve your current relationships by working to better understand yourself.

If you feel uncomfortable about someone, ask yourself what about yourself makes you feel that way. Deal with the root cause of the discomfort and your relationships will change, not only how you feel around and react to people, but also people you invite into your life based on your invisible energy of attraction.