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Entries in core beliefs (3)

Wednesday
May232018

8 Messages about permission

Nothing appears or disappears from our life without our permission. Yet, this is easily overlooked.  How often do you find yourself in situations where; a) you must decide to give or deny your permission, b) you feel hurt, betrayed or compromised as someone acted without asking your permission or c) you encounter situations where multiple levels of permission (or approval) are required? This is an opportunity to delve deeper into what is really going on with the recurrent theme.  Ponder 8 messages about permission; 

1.  Everything that comes or goes is for your highest good 

2.  Nothing leaves your life unless the related lesson is learned

3.  Issues only arise as you cling to unworthiness 

4.  Sometimes persmission issues are what someone else needs to go through 

5.  Denying your permission is an effort to control

6.  The need to obtain approval invites letting go

7.   Being detached from results shifts situations without force

8.  Efforts to recreate the past prevents accepting and doing your best in present

 

Affirmations

a) I give myself permission to love myself unconditionally as I am

b) Nobody can hurt, trigger or intimidate me without my consent

c) I am a growing, evolving being

d) How much I give or deny self love is reflected back (love more & things accelerate)

e) No impediments/ obstacles exist except in thought (mind)


 "Scarcity of self value cannot be remedied by money, recognition, affection, attention or influence."-Gary Zukav

"With each inhalation of your breath, allow yourself to go deep within the inner aspects of your soul.  With each exhalation, give yourself permission to release cloudy, limiting thoughts, stifled emotions and stagnant energy." - James Van Praagh

"Your task is not to seek for Love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it." - Rumi

Tuesday
Apr252017

4 Ways to increase self-esteem

Many reasons exist why clients hire mentors (coaches).  Individualized program design, accountability, time management, and soulwork have increasing appeal.  Clarifying and aligning with core values, career/ business transitions, moving from headspace to heartspace, intuitive guidance, are also key. Whatever your reason, you are here to clarify more about yourself.

Coaches exist to help clients believe in themselves, to reinforce high self worth. In order to be effective, a mentor has to have high self-worth.  Working toward more consistent self-acceptance and self-worth often arises as a core major focus of coaching. A person’s attitudes, abilities, and cognitive skills make up what is known as the self-system. This system plays a key role in how we perceive situations and how we respond to different situations or opportunities.

Anyone with high self-esteem (self-worth):
  • View challenges as tasks to be mastered (is solution-oriented)
  • Develops deeper interest in heartfelt activities (increasingly intuitive) 
  • Commits to what matters with confidence
  • Visualizes and feels the way into new realities
Anyone with low self-esteem:
  • Avoids or feels disheartened by challenges 
  • Imagines and focuses on reasons why something is unreachable
  • Focus on personal failings and negative outcomes 
  • Lacks confidence in personal abilities

If you wish to increase self-esteem, you must respond to the world like someone with high self esteem. Ponder four ways to increase (and stabilize) self esteem;

1. Choose to Master Experiences
This is about focusing energy and attention, performing to the best of your ability, knowing you are. Visualizing and feeling realized dreams in this moment strengthens self esteem and brings them into your scope of awareness and experience. This is an exercise in vibrating like a master, convincing yourself of what already is.

 

2. Select Role Models (or Blaze a Trail)
Witnessing other people successfully completing a task is important inspiration for increasing self-esteem. Seeing other people succeed via sustained effort, it inspires observers that they can do the same. 

 

3. Increase Awareness of Self-Talk
Talk to yourself regularly in ways that reinforce you have what it takes. Recall encouragement that helped you achieve a goal. Ask people to support your intentions.  This empowers you to believe in any task at hand.  

4. Psychological Responses
Our own responses and emotional reactions to situations influence self-esteem. Moods, emotional states, physical reactions and stress levels all contribute to what a person feels is realistic or doable in a particular situation. By learning to envision success and feel the experience in the present is what creates a comparable reality.  This strengthens and stabilizes self-esteem. You have to tell yourself how it feels to already be doing what another part of you is working toward.
Tuesday
Jun092009

Learn to see though your choices

Human beings often mistakenly believe that they are their choices. In reality, individual choices do not reflect who you are. You are not your lunch. You are not your job. You are not your partner. You are not the book you are reading. This is part of a process of learning to see through your choices.

You get stuck when you assume external things are you. As you dissolve the fear of separating from or losing these things you feel are you, then you start creating or, focus more inner energy on creating. You shift the flow of energy to permit your true self to blossom. The nature of your thoughts and feelings invites you to set yourself free. How do youbegin the process?

1) Trust that every choice is a teacher. Some emotions are based on misunderstanding. Those that promote love are real.

2)Engage mind and spirit to co-create.  Take responsibility.  Be willing to follow the direction guided by intuition.

3) Reconnect with your core self. Distance yourself from any person or situation that evokes negative energy inside you.

4) Be aware of beliefs and effects. Release what does not serve you. Recognize thoughts and feelings shape your destiny.